Gender Neutral/Non-Binary Parent Titles
- Same Sex Parents
- Mar 22, 2019
- 2 min read
Updated: Mar 27, 2019
LGBTQ+ parents and intended parents can often struggle when it comes to deciding on the names that their children will address them by. Whether it's a two mom family struggling to decide on which mom will go by which name, a two dad family deciding on who'll be Papa and who'll be Daddy, or even more challenging - deciding on a name as a non-binary parent.
There are many names that exist for a mom - Mama, Mommy, Mom and Mam to name a few. The same goes for a dad - Dada, Daddy, Papa, Pops and so on. But what about the non-binary parents? What names exist for them? Well, we're going to tell you!
We've put together a list of 26 gender neutral titles that non-binary parents could go by.
If anyone would like to suggest any others, we'd be more than happy to add to the list!

Baba
- based on 'Mama/Dada/Papa'.
Also means dad in some languages and grandmother in others.
Dama
- 'dada' and 'mama' intertwined.
Mada
- 'mama' and 'dada' intertwined.
Maddy
- 'mom' and 'daddy' intertwined.
Makua
- Hawaiian for 'parent'.
Mapa
- 'Mama' and 'Papa' intertwined.
Mātua
- Māori (Eastern Polynesian) for 'parent'.
Moddy
- 'mommy' and 'daddy' intertwined.
Moppa / Mopa
- 'Mommy' and 'Papa' intertwined.
Nari / Nary
- taken from 'non-bi(nary)'.
Nibi
- taken from 'non-binary'.
Nini
- taken from the N in 'non-binary'.
Nobi
- taken from the term '(no)n-(bi)nary'.
(Pronounced as no-bee not nob-ee!)
Nody
- 'non-binary' and 'daddy' intertwined.
Nomy
- 'non-binary' and 'mommy' intertwined.
(Can be pronounced as nom-ie or no-me.)
Noni
- taken from '(non)-b(i)nary'.
Also the name of a plant. (Pronounced non-ee.)
Nopa
- taken from '(no)n-binary (pa)rent'.
Nory
- taken from '(no)n-bina(ry)'.
Obi
- Yoruba (African) for 'parent'.
Can also mean 'heart' when translated.
O'Pa
- abbreviation of 'other parent'.
Pama
- 'papa' and 'mama' intertwined.
Pare
- Catalan for 'parent'.
Pom-Pom
- 'papa' and 'mom' intertwined.
Zari / Zary
- 'Ze/Zir' pronouns and 'non-bin(ary)' intertwined.
Zaza
- a mashup of 'mama/dada/papa' and the gender neutral pronouns 'Ze/Zir'.
Zeze
- taken from the gender neutral pronouns 'Ze/Zir'.
Please get in touch with us if you have any other ideas, we'd love to hear them. You can contact us via Instagram or email - samesexparents@outlook.com.
We hope that this list will be beneficial to at least one person out there!
Same Sex Parents x
March 22, 2019
This is very good, but "pare" in catalan actually means dad. In catalan we don't have gender neutral terms, sadly.
this helps me out dealing with the homophobic that keep telling me and my partners "What is the kid gonna call you it only messes up the kid cause of all the confusing names?" and I think this really helps alot for if you dont know how to refer to a caregiver or adult family member aswell and I think its nice to have this kind of thing around
Love this, thank you! 💖
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I’m just here cuz I’m curious